Stop Interacting with Ghosts đź‘»

You are being let down by a ghost đź‘» Not by your manager. Or your colleague. Or your team member. Rather: you are being let down by the version of people that exists ONLY  in your head. When I was in Australia recently, everyone called us “you guys.”  Waiters, guides… everyone. At first I found […]

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Relationship Friction is How You Grow into Who You’re Meant to Be

“Alexandra, you’re already out of a job,” an AI creator warned me recently. AI has several PhDs in psychology. As such, it can give you well-meaning advice. It will list relationship skills, explain active listening, and offer tips to resolve conflict. It will write you a long recipe about how to influence. It knows all […]

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